I have been lazy and busy so have not written in some time. Nothing exciting has been happening in our household. However William has been studying to write more exams for further accreditation. He hold two degrees but is doing some more exams for his career. I think he will be moving away from … More An update of sorts.
I have had two or is it three very challenging and exhausting weeks at work. Today I got some feedback that all this work has not really paid off. Long story will not bore you. I am mentally and physically exhausted and it does not help that I have not been sleeping well. The best … More William makes me feel safe.
Its been a very challenging week, rough, actully it was a shit week. Work was very intense and the pressure is getting to me. I have been working 10 – 12 hours over the last couple of weeks. I have a number of special projects on at the moment. And above all we are doing … More 2 is the perfect number!
William is from a small town, I was born and grew up in the city. Now before you all make any judgement, let me explain what is it to date a “country boy”. Growing up in a city we tend to be very independent, harder souls, and have a tough attitude. However a person growing … More Dating someone from a small town
William and myslef have been together nearly 12 years. I was 25 and he was 19 when we met. I never really thought we would make a realtionship long term due to the age difference when we met. How wrong was I. William was a country boy, I was the city boy. Six months later … More The Longevity of a Relationship. The way I see it.
So we all buy certain brands of clothes, food, cars, electrical products etc. Why? Do we believe it makes us better people, more influential, or more acceptable to society. Yes I am a brand person to a degree, I am an Apple guy. I purchase certain brands of electrical equipment, and food items. However if … More Brand buying
I was brought up to be very independent. One trait that I have, is that I am very strong willed, this can be interpreted as been stubborn or arrogant. I am not arrogant, but I have found that I am perceived this way. What gets me into trouble is that I sometimes express my viewpoint, … More Think it don’t say it.
The way is see it, and that’s not always that clear, we are all in a way dysfunctional. For me I do not like conflict at all and avoid it at all costs, not very healthy. We can have an adult to child relationship, adult to adult relationship, parent to child etc. In some way … More Adult relationships.
We have been called names, plenty of names however the best is boring and that we lack a personality. Both William and myself are very much driven by routine and our actions are very much the same when we we get home. Open the house, close the shutters, the curtains run the bath etc etc. … More Of pajamas and legal agreements
So we are NOT into that kind of “role playing”, or any kind of swopping, swinging or what ever you would like to call it. However William really enjoys doing the laundry. We have a great little laundry room, that is in the studio, so we don’t hear the machines in the house. However this … More Role swopping