With any relationship, good, bad or indifferent, their are times when you will not always agree. In fact you may differ as in day and night. At this stage it can get ugly and especially with men. Maybe it’s all about territory, maybe it’s just the testosterone. Now this is were you need to back … More When you don’t agree!
Sunday’s I think are meant for doing very little. When my family stayed close by, we would always have a mandatory family lunch. It was special and uncomplicated. Fast forward, I no longer live close by. In fact I still same in the same city, my whole family has moved. My family now is William … More Sleepy Sunday.
Weekends are always our time, has been this way for many years now. We are currently the “Gay Gardeners”. We started by doing the garden in the front of the house about a year back. It was always just their and we never really took much care or notice of it. This weekend we have … More William getting older
Why are we together? Even though the stigma of being Gay is slowly receding into the realms of normality, there’s still work to be done when you commit yourself to a relationship. This can also work in your favor, though, as it’s a struggle you and your partner face together. It’s a common cause when … More Relationship, the way I see it:
Sunday are meant for me. Lazy days, late sleeping, not shaving, and just being lazy if I choice. The one thing that I do on a Sunday is have a shower and change into slob clothes. There is something to be said about just having a shower and brushing your teeth that to … More Lazy Sunday’s.
William and myself have not shaved in 5 days. You may think this is no Big Deal, well as we both shave everyday of the week, I think it is. Maybe it’s missing the ritual of the routine of shaving, or is it a sign of the great time we have had this past week. … More We need a shave.
Why do they call this the holidays? To me it’s just one big stress session of trying to fit in and do what is expected. I say make your own rules. Both William and myself have some single friends, straight and gay. Now it’s got nothing to do with sexual identification at all, but about … More We can choice to NOT walk alone.
I am not sure how other people are doing this time of year, but for me I am not in the best of places. Work, family and friends in that order. Maybe it’s this time of year or because it was actully a crap year. Not sure why. William and myslef are spending the holidays … More Is it just me.
In any relationship, good ones, bad ones, average one, new ones and ones that are years in the making, sex is part of this. Now how good is the sex is dependent on each relationship. Being a gay man, the perception that all gay men have Sex 24 hours a day. That’s all we are … More How important is sex in a relationship?
Do we suddenly wake up and realize one day that we all grown up and adults full time. Full of responsibility, commitments, and sensible at last. The fun is not all gone, we just all grown up. We have homes, families and is this not we all dreamed and desired? its actully all good! The … More Being a grown up.