Why do they call this the holidays? To me it’s just one big stress session of trying to fit in and do what is expected. I say make your own rules. Both William and myself have some single friends, straight and gay. Now it’s got nothing to do with sexual identification at all, but about … More We can choice to NOT walk alone.
I am being very absent from my blog, too absent.and it’s not due to laziness this time. That dark cloud of depression has been hovering over me for a couple of weeks now. I am taking antidepressants, and I have suffered from this for most of my adult life. The good news is that I … More Our family.
In any relationship, good ones, bad ones, average one, new ones and ones that are years in the making, sex is part of this. Now how good is the sex is dependent on each relationship. Being a gay man, the perception that all gay men have Sex 24 hours a day. That’s all we are … More How important is sex in a relationship?
Let’s face it – being with someone takes time, energy and effort. Relationships don’t “just happen”, which is why most people consider them to be special in the first place. If you are fortunate to have been in a longer term relationship, you will at some point have the feeling that things are dull, too … More Longevity of a relationship. How I see it.
I am a reader, always have been. Most nights I will take the iPad and read news, blogs, basically most sites that I find interesting and obviously many gay related issues. Now as William and myslef are very much not a part of any of the “scene” we still hold our gay memberships proudly. I … More Is the gay community becoming reckless?
Its been a very challenging week, rough, actully it was a shit week. Work was very intense and the pressure is getting to me. I have been working 10 – 12 hours over the last couple of weeks. I have a number of special projects on at the moment. And above all we are doing … More 2 is the perfect number!
I read a lot. My iPad and myself are best of friends. I read news, advice columns, home stuff, mostly everything about life. Now I also read a couple of gay blogs and gay websites like gayguys.com I also have some great friends, some are single and we couples maybe live precarious with the singles. … More How important is the gym body?
Nobody is perfect. Accept that your partner will make mistakes, has imperfections and won’t always be at his or her best. Neither will you! Don’t expect your partner to be a perfect relationship machine. Nobody is born with expert relationship skills and we all have bad days. So when you first start dating we act … More Imperfections (Relationships 6:1) the way I see it.
Sex is a pleasurable and natural part of life. It can strengthen the bond between people within a relationship, and is an expression of the strong emotional and physical desire felt by both for the other. These feelings are the same for everyone, gay or straight. Sexual thoughts and acts are nothing to feel ashamed … More Intimacy (sex) Relationship 1:3. They way I see it.
The definition of Chemsex is: Party and play (PNP and PnP) is a phenomenon and subculture of recreational drug users who engage in sexual activities with one another, either one-on-one or in groups. It is also called chemical session, chem session, chemsex and partying. The term is often but not always used by and associated … More Chemsex, Party and Play.