There is a gay beauty culture that tells us we’ll never look good enough (and this messes with our self-esteem). Now this may sound very anti-gay, well it’s not. The way I see it, it’s actully saying something that we hate to admit is true in part of the whole gay culture with our people. … More The Gay Beauty Culture!
The way I see it, is maybe my trademark, my brand or just my own unique view on life. Last week William and myslef had a disagreement about some random, idiotic incident. Was completely unnecessary and yes I did play apart in this. Maybe I should have just kept quiet and my way is not … More The way I see it:
Sundays my best day of the week. Have a great week. Ivan
Sunday’s I think are meant for doing very little. When my family stayed close by, we would always have a mandatory family lunch. It was special and uncomplicated. Fast forward, I no longer live close by. In fact I still same in the same city, my whole family has moved. My family now is William … More Sleepy Sunday.
The way I see it, men have been taught to be tough, to hide our feelings and emotions. Now add in the mix being a Gay Man, we are not always welcomed when we show public displays of affection. William is not a very touchy person, and I think I am very much the same … More The Power of Touch
Why are we together? Even though the stigma of being Gay is slowly receding into the realms of normality, there’s still work to be done when you commit yourself to a relationship. This can also work in your favor, though, as it’s a struggle you and your partner face together. It’s a common cause when … More Relationship, the way I see it:
William and myself have not shaved in 5 days. You may think this is no Big Deal, well as we both shave everyday of the week, I think it is. Maybe it’s missing the ritual of the routine of shaving, or is it a sign of the great time we have had this past week. … More We need a shave.
Being the youngest child had its challenges and benefits. Maybe it was seeing my older siblings falling in and out love that, and eventually getting married, that gave me the realization that as a Gay Man I may never have this love. Lets be honest, I was told that all gay mane cannot do commitment … More To my younger self.
I am not sure how other people are doing this time of year, but for me I am not in the best of places. Work, family and friends in that order. Maybe it’s this time of year or because it was actully a crap year. Not sure why. William and myslef are spending the holidays … More Is it just me.