When we looking for the right partner you also want to find someone who listens, someone whose opinion you respect. You want someone who makes you laugh and who backs away from an argument before it turns into a nasty fight. You want someone who is not too stubborn to say, “I was wrong and … More Rather a Team Mate than a Contol Freak
Hope all enjoys the holidays. Over the years we all do seem to collect stuff, and it’s all up to each person how they live with this. To me I have to have order, and William is slightly obsessive and a person of routine. Saying this we have accumulated clutter or stuff. You replace home … More Decluttering our lives.
Being the youngest child had its challenges and benefits. Maybe it was seeing my older siblings falling in and out love that, and eventually getting married, that gave me the realization that as a Gay Man I may never have this love. Lets be honest, I was told that all gay mane cannot do commitment … More To my younger self.
I am being very absent from my blog, too absent.and it’s not due to laziness this time. That dark cloud of depression has been hovering over me for a couple of weeks now. I am taking antidepressants, and I have suffered from this for most of my adult life. The good news is that I … More Our family.
Do we suddenly wake up and realize one day that we all grown up and adults full time. Full of responsibility, commitments, and sensible at last. The fun is not all gone, we just all grown up. We have homes, families and is this not we all dreamed and desired? its actully all good! The … More Being a grown up.
lazy days. I have not been feeling great of late. Think I am suffering from exhaustion and dealing with some issues around my family. William is not the shopper in our house, however when he does go shopping, he sure does. On Friday I got home and walked in to see lots of shopping bags. William … More Close the world. Just for today.
Elitist is another word for “snob.” If you Live in the best neighbourhood, wear only the finest silk suits, and hang around only with other Similar judgements assholes , then you’re an elitist. A fairly recent addition to the English language, the noun elitist, came about from a mix of elite + ist in 1950. … More Elitist Ass
William and myslef have been together nearly 12 years. And it’s been a challenging yet an incredible rewarding relationship, partnership. When I met William, he had just moved to the city about two years prior. He was a student. And he also had a girlfriend at that time. He had been on the down low, … More Sensual, sexy, healthy.
Relationships evolve over time. People change and we should also change with time When William and I first met he was very shy and slightly self-conscious. He is still shy however he is more confident and more comfortable with himself. One thing that has changed is William’s behaviour towards me. He is very protective of … More William the protector.
Now you find your ideal parner, and now what? Some people thrive on arguments and dramatic emotional outpourings but drama is a poor way to resolve problems or express discontent within relationships. It might make you feel important and the centre of attention but it’s actually a very childish way of communicating your feelings. Screaming … More No Drama. (Relationship 1:1) the way I see it.