Being the youngest child had its challenges and benefits. Maybe it was seeing my older siblings falling in and out love that, and eventually getting married, that gave me the realization that as a Gay Man I may never have this love. Lets be honest, I was told that all gay mane cannot do commitment … More To my younger self.
Why do they call this the holidays? To me it’s just one big stress session of trying to fit in and do what is expected. I say make your own rules. Both William and myself have some single friends, straight and gay. Now it’s got nothing to do with sexual identification at all, but about … More We can choice to NOT walk alone.
I am being very absent from my blog, too absent.and it’s not due to laziness this time. That dark cloud of depression has been hovering over me for a couple of weeks now. I am taking antidepressants, and I have suffered from this for most of my adult life. The good news is that I … More Our family.
In any relationship, good ones, bad ones, average one, new ones and ones that are years in the making, sex is part of this. Now how good is the sex is dependent on each relationship. Being a gay man, the perception that all gay men have Sex 24 hours a day. That’s all we are … More How important is sex in a relationship?
Sundays should be a time to just be with your partner and your own family. Our family is just us and our two little babies with four legged fur. Have a great Sunday all Ivan
Like the season of spring, winter, summer and autumn, I think relationships have the same “seasons”. Of late I have been very consumed with work and family matters. Above this William has been doing some more studies, he already has two degrees but likes to challenge himself. So life has consumed us. That catholic or … More Make Time and lots of effort.
Let’s face it – being with someone takes time, energy and effort. Relationships don’t “just happen”, which is why most people consider them to be special in the first place. If you are fortunate to have been in a longer term relationship, you will at some point have the feeling that things are dull, too … More Longevity of a relationship. How I see it.