When we looking for the right partner you also want to find someone who listens, someone whose opinion you respect. You want someone who makes you laugh and who backs away from an argument before it turns into a nasty fight. You want someone who is not too stubborn to say, “I was wrong and … More Rather a Team Mate than a Contol Freak
We have been together nearly 14 yrs…the person you first met is not the person you are with now and either are you..it is called growth and progress…relationships like people need the good and the bad and how we react determines us and the relationship. Now I am no expert on this, and don’t proclaim … More The way I see Wednesday.
The way I see it, is maybe my trademark, my brand or just my own unique view on life. Last week William and myslef had a disagreement about some random, idiotic incident. Was completely unnecessary and yes I did play apart in this. Maybe I should have just kept quiet and my way is not … More The way I see it:
Being the youngest child had its challenges and benefits. Maybe it was seeing my older siblings falling in and out love that, and eventually getting married, that gave me the realization that as a Gay Man I may never have this love. Lets be honest, I was told that all gay mane cannot do commitment … More To my younger self.
Why do they call this the holidays? To me it’s just one big stress session of trying to fit in and do what is expected. I say make your own rules. Both William and myself have some single friends, straight and gay. Now it’s got nothing to do with sexual identification at all, but about … More We can choice to NOT walk alone.
I am being very absent from my blog, too absent.and it’s not due to laziness this time. That dark cloud of depression has been hovering over me for a couple of weeks now. I am taking antidepressants, and I have suffered from this for most of my adult life. The good news is that I … More Our family.
In any relationship, good ones, bad ones, average one, new ones and ones that are years in the making, sex is part of this. Now how good is the sex is dependent on each relationship. Being a gay man, the perception that all gay men have Sex 24 hours a day. That’s all we are … More How important is sex in a relationship?
Sundays should be a time to just be with your partner and your own family. Our family is just us and our two little babies with four legged fur. Have a great Sunday all Ivan
Like the season of spring, winter, summer and autumn, I think relationships have the same “seasons”. Of late I have been very consumed with work and family matters. Above this William has been doing some more studies, he already has two degrees but likes to challenge himself. So life has consumed us. That catholic or … More Make Time and lots of effort.