I am being very absent from my blog, too absent.and it’s not due to laziness this time. That dark cloud of depression has been hovering over me for a couple of weeks now. I am taking antidepressants, and I have suffered from this for most of my adult life. The good news is that I … More Our family.
In any relationship, good ones, bad ones, average one, new ones and ones that are years in the making, sex is part of this. Now how good is the sex is dependent on each relationship. Being a gay man, the perception that all gay men have Sex 24 hours a day. That’s all we are … More How important is sex in a relationship?
Let’s face it – being with someone takes time, energy and effort. Relationships don’t “just happen”, which is why most people consider them to be special in the first place. If you are fortunate to have been in a longer term relationship, you will at some point have the feeling that things are dull, too … More Longevity of a relationship. How I see it.
We went a wedding. But that not breaking news, what is, is that William wore a suit. He is a very casual person and his work environment is very laid back. I on the other hand am very formal for work. So it was surprising when he got home after getting a suit. The wedding … More The way I see weddings:
William and myslef have been together nearly 12 years. I was 25 and he was 19 when we met. I never really thought we would make a realtionship long term due to the age difference when we met. How wrong was I. William was a country boy, I was the city boy. Six months later … More The Longevity of a Relationship. The way I see it.
A great saying, A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences. So of late, I have been reading some very interesting blogs. Got me thinking, what defines me, what defines Ivan the person. I have been given a foundation and made my own principles that I try to live by. Did my upbringing … More What defines you?
We have been called names, plenty of names however the best is boring and that we lack a personality. Both William and myself are very much driven by routine and our actions are very much the same when we we get home. Open the house, close the shutters, the curtains run the bath etc etc. … More Of pajamas and legal agreements
So yesterday I vented about my experience of the day It’s not my name So today William gets a call from the same clinic, they asking if he will settle the account. He went on line and checked that my claim HAD not been lodged with our medical insurance. He enquired why the claim was … More Follow up on yesterday post. It’s not my name.
I have a infamous, well know surname. It’s not part of the new famous names like Hilton, Spielberg, Spelling. It’s a well know family name like the Vanderbilt family. Mine is of Europeans descent mainly and still a well know name. Not a show business, or a name make famous by scandal. Okay my family … More It’s not my name.
Congratulations to John And Scott. “they made it legal”. Well done guys. Ivan