Showing your junk.

Nothing wrong with seeing abit of skin, however defining who you by only showing your body, censored or non censored, I just don’t get it.   Jakes Shears, made this very powerful statement. “We’re placing value in really stupid shit. If all you’re giving the world is your body on Instagram, check yourself, f… off. … More Showing your junk.

Brand buying

So we all buy certain brands of clothes, food, cars, electrical products etc. Why? Do we believe it makes us better people, more influential, or more acceptable to society. Yes I am a brand person to a degree, I am an Apple guy. I purchase certain brands of electrical equipment, and food items. However if … More Brand buying

What defines you?

A great saying, A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences. So of late, I have been reading some very interesting blogs. Got me thinking, what defines me, what defines Ivan the person. I have been given a foundation and made my own principles that I try to live by. Did my upbringing … More What defines you?

The down low.

This is what down low means as per one of the sites I found. A man, who for all intents and purposes, is straight, however once in a while likes to engage in gay sex. I sometimes am so oblivious to what’s going on around me. Turns out we may have someone in our office … More The down low.

Role Models

scott gill john barrowman Of late, I have read a number of post which have not exactly promoted gay relationships. The way I see if, and this is only my point of view. The perception of gay men and relationships is still perceived by many as just hook ups, non committal relationships based on sex, … More Role Models