I read a lot. My iPad and myself are best of friends. I read news, advice columns, home stuff, mostly everything about life. Now I also read a couple of gay blogs and gay websites like gayguys.com I also have some great friends, some are single and we couples maybe live precarious with the singles. … More How important is the gym body?
I am short, I am challenged by not having long legs. Well that has not stopped me from living. Yes being short legged has causes some situations, like being ignored in a crowd. I am about 5’5. But this has never stopped me or made my counsious of my height, or lack of height. And … More Short men are Sexy!
So we all buy certain brands of clothes, food, cars, electrical products etc. Why? Do we believe it makes us better people, more influential, or more acceptable to society. Yes I am a brand person to a degree, I am an Apple guy. I purchase certain brands of electrical equipment, and food items. However if … More Brand buying
A great saying, A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences. So of late, I have been reading some very interesting blogs. Got me thinking, what defines me, what defines Ivan the person. I have been given a foundation and made my own principles that I try to live by. Did my upbringing … More What defines you?
Another night I have not slept well. Bella our baby cat woke me in the early hours, she wants to play. So I decided to blog. Doing things together, the way I see it. So being in a same sex relationship, for over 11 years, things can become complainant, boring, routine, what you expect. Now … More Doing things together. The way I see it.
This is what down low means as per one of the sites I found. A man, who for all intents and purposes, is straight, however once in a while likes to engage in gay sex. I sometimes am so oblivious to what’s going on around me. Turns out we may have someone in our office … More The down low.
We moved from apartment living to live in the suburbs. The commute to work is longer, the idea of sharing no walls with neighbors, and that we could have a garden was why me moved 7-8 years back. We bought a much larger house than what we planned on, it is also in the “Volvo … More Living in the burbs..
scott gill john barrowman Of late, I have read a number of post which have not exactly promoted gay relationships. The way I see if, and this is only my point of view. The perception of gay men and relationships is still perceived by many as just hook ups, non committal relationships based on sex, … More Role Models
So when I was single I had a wish list of who I wanted, what they would like like, and the list goes on of my perfect partner. Actually I just wanted someone to like me. I wanted someone older, William is younger. I wanted someone who was a Doctor, Dentist, Lawyer, William is a … More The way I see it when looking for a partner.
Today we had a business meeting and some of the other divisions of our business joined. I work for a very large company that has over 100 plus different business operations, but we are all part of the same group. Anyway these two men are introduced to me, one older and one about my age. … More A serious post.