Hope all enjoys the holidays. Over the years we all do seem to collect stuff, and it’s all up to each person how they live with this. To me I have to have order, and William is slightly obsessive and a person of routine. Saying this we have accumulated clutter or stuff. You replace home … More Decluttering our lives.
Weekends are always our time, has been this way for many years now. We are currently the “Gay Gardeners”. We started by doing the garden in the front of the house about a year back. It was always just their and we never really took much care or notice of it. This weekend we have … More William getting older
Why are we together? Even though the stigma of being Gay is slowly receding into the realms of normality, there’s still work to be done when you commit yourself to a relationship. This can also work in your favor, though, as it’s a struggle you and your partner face together. It’s a common cause when … More Relationship, the way I see it:
Sunday are meant for me. Lazy days, late sleeping, not shaving, and just being lazy if I choice. The one thing that I do on a Sunday is have a shower and change into slob clothes. There is something to be said about just having a shower and brushing your teeth that to … More Lazy Sunday’s.
Being the youngest child had its challenges and benefits. Maybe it was seeing my older siblings falling in and out love that, and eventually getting married, that gave me the realization that as a Gay Man I may never have this love. Lets be honest, I was told that all gay mane cannot do commitment … More To my younger self.
Why do they call this the holidays? To me it’s just one big stress session of trying to fit in and do what is expected. I say make your own rules. Both William and myself have some single friends, straight and gay. Now it’s got nothing to do with sexual identification at all, but about … More We can choice to NOT walk alone.
I am not sure how other people are doing this time of year, but for me I am not in the best of places. Work, family and friends in that order. Maybe it’s this time of year or because it was actully a crap year. Not sure why. William and myslef are spending the holidays … More Is it just me.
I am being very absent from my blog, too absent.and it’s not due to laziness this time. That dark cloud of depression has been hovering over me for a couple of weeks now. I am taking antidepressants, and I have suffered from this for most of my adult life. The good news is that I … More Our family.