Over the last couple of days I have been following a story about a person who committed suicide. It’s sad that this person got to the point for him the only option was suicide. Some background: this person was a successful sports person, was in jail for some violent crimes, was a dad, a son … More Suicide, It does not make sense.
We have been together nearly 14 yrs…the person you first met is not the person you are with now and either are you..it is called growth and progress…relationships like people need the good and the bad and how we react determines us and the relationship. Now I am no expert on this, and don’t proclaim … More The way I see Wednesday.
Being the youngest child had its challenges and benefits. Maybe it was seeing my older siblings falling in and out love that, and eventually getting married, that gave me the realization that as a Gay Man I may never have this love. Lets be honest, I was told that all gay mane cannot do commitment … More To my younger self.
I am not sure how other people are doing this time of year, but for me I am not in the best of places. Work, family and friends in that order. Maybe it’s this time of year or because it was actully a crap year. Not sure why. William and myslef are spending the holidays … More Is it just me.
I am being very absent from my blog, too absent.and it’s not due to laziness this time. That dark cloud of depression has been hovering over me for a couple of weeks now. I am taking antidepressants, and I have suffered from this for most of my adult life. The good news is that I … More Our family.
Some people have families that all get on and they go away together often, have weekly meals together and always have the Sunday roast with all the family around the table. Big families small families. Well we all different. My reality and it’s taking good me along time to accept is that my family have … More Sadness of families.
lazy days. I have not been feeling great of late. Think I am suffering from exhaustion and dealing with some issues around my family. William is not the shopper in our house, however when he does go shopping, he sure does. On Friday I got home and walked in to see lots of shopping bags. William … More Close the world. Just for today.
Elitist is another word for “snob.” If you Live in the best neighbourhood, wear only the finest silk suits, and hang around only with other Similar judgements assholes , then you’re an elitist. A fairly recent addition to the English language, the noun elitist, came about from a mix of elite + ist in 1950. … More Elitist Ass
We read of violence in relationships, usually women and children being beaten, violated, or worse killed. Same-sex realtionships are not except from this. In fact we too silent on this. Woman to are amazed to admit they were attached by another woman, men are taught to be strong and be silent. Gay men can be … More Same-Sex Domestic violence is silence.
You won’t always agree with your partner so it’s important to be able to find a middle ground where you both feel you’ve been heard. Not agreeing on everything doesn’t spell doom for the relationship; it’s normal because you’re still individuals. After all, you weren’t looking for a clone of yourself to have a relationship … More Compromise (Realtionships 1:4) the way I see it.