To my younger self.

Being the youngest child had its challenges and benefits. Maybe it was seeing my older siblings falling in and out love that, and eventually getting married, that gave me the realization that as a Gay Man I may never have this love. Lets be honest, I was told that all gay mane cannot do commitment … More To my younger self.

Is it just me.

I am not sure how other people are doing this time of year, but for me I am not in the best of places. Work, family and friends in that order. Maybe it’s this time of year or because it was actully a crap year. Not sure why. William and myslef are spending the holidays … More Is it just me.

Our family.

I am being very absent from my blog, too absent.and it’s not due to laziness this time. That dark cloud of depression has been hovering over me for a couple of weeks now. I am taking antidepressants, and I have suffered from this for most of my adult life.  The good news is that I … More Our family.

Sadness of families.

Some people have families that all get on and they go away together often, have weekly meals together and always have the Sunday roast with all the family around the table. Big families small families. Well we all different. My reality and it’s taking good me along time to accept is that my family have … More Sadness of families.

Elitist Ass

Elitist is another word for “snob.” If you Live in the best neighbourhood,  wear only the finest silk suits, and hang around only with other Similar judgements assholes  , then you’re an elitist. A fairly recent addition to the English language, the noun elitist, came about from a mix of elite + ist in 1950. … More Elitist Ass

Compromise (Realtionships 1:4) the way I see it.

You won’t always agree with your partner so it’s important to be able to find a middle ground where you both feel you’ve been heard. Not agreeing on everything doesn’t spell doom for the relationship; it’s normal because you’re still individuals. After all, you weren’t looking for a clone of yourself to have a relationship … More Compromise (Realtionships 1:4) the way I see it.

Barilla Pasta

” Barilla Chairman Says Gays ‘Can Eat Pasta From Another Manufacturer’ I would never do (a commercial) with a homosexual family, not for lack of respect but because we don’t agree with them. Ours is a classic family where the woman plays a fundamental role,” Barilla chairman Guido Barilla said in a recent interview. As … More Barilla Pasta