This is the way I see it. Should your past allow people to judge your present? I have said before that sometimes we cannot walk others lives, but we do control and walk our own lives. My point is, why do we judge people and belive we have the “right” to bring up other people’s … More Should you past, judge your present!
William and myself have been together for a number of years now . It’s been one day at time to get to today and tomorrow is the next days, some high, some low, but always just one day at a time. Sometimes we to just need to stand and take up the the bad and the … More second by second, minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day
We have been together nearly 14 yrs…the person you first met is not the person you are with now and either are you..it is called growth and progress…relationships like people need the good and the bad and how we react determines us and the relationship. Now I am no expert on this, and don’t proclaim … More The way I see Wednesday.
How life has changed for us over the years. William was the life and soul of the party, and then he become sober. I have also had some radical changes in my life since we first got together. Luckily we have remained on the same pages and moved on with life with very much the … More Alone at home.
William and myslef have been together nearly 12 years. And it’s been a challenging yet an incredible rewarding relationship, partnership. When I met William, he had just moved to the city about two years prior. He was a student. And he also had a girlfriend at that time. He had been on the down low, … More Sensual, sexy, healthy.
Alot has been written about gay men and addictions, alcohol, drugs and other forms of addiction. Now addictions are non discrimination, they effect all. I am no expert, but have some insight from tye other side of tye table of addiction. William is an alcoholic. Sober now 6 plus years. The assocition with gay men … More Finding yourself,being sober.
During the first couple of years in our relationship, their was a secret third party. This was the white elephant, the one we never talked about. The alcohol become more important than I did. I mattered less. My reactions were to joing the parties, and when I had had enough the constant fights over alcohol … More Drunk love :
So so it’s been said that men love sex and so gay men should by default then have plenty of sex. Guys are always wanting it. Well maybe the media projects that all gay men love sex and have it a lot. That may be true, I am not the expert who can speak on … More Sex starved gay couples, is it a mith?