So I blog and maybe you may be interested in more facts useless facts about myself. I knew I was gay when I was about 13. My first boyfriend was a 6,4 tall part-time stripper. That’s how he put paid for his education and apartment. I have travelled to 16 countries, and counting. My favorite … More Some facts about myself….
So this is my story, about my partner who is an alcoholic. This is a follow up on my prior blogs. So we are in an unfamiliar place in the middle of the night, William has been in a bad fight, he is drunk, and also totally delusional. To me he was this stranger, someone … More My alcoholic
This is a follow up on a prior blog.The addict who is Gay This is my story. I am not a professional therapist, just a guy who fell in love with an alcoholic. So I had eventually moved out, William had been on a bad bender, and it took him two days to recover. In … More The not so happy Gay Alcoholic.
Re posted There is a good deal of alcoholism and addiction in the gay community. That is a fact. I am not a therapist or a trained profession in the health sector. I have a partner who is an alcoholic. The reason that addiction may be so in the gay community, is due to the … More The Addict who is Gay.
I am not a huge fan of V-day or as someone said Hump Day. But it was a good day. William did not get me anything, and that how we are. I did get him a small bag of Lindt dark chocolates and some candy. The little bag was a very camp pink, and the … More The letter I never send,
I am a gay male and a gay man. I like men, gay men. I am not unique, I am not the only gay person in the village. What does make me different is my choices, my views and my outlook. I do not have to agree with a the majority, but there is something … More How did we get here, part 2
How did we get here, to be living in this street? Well it all begin just over ten years back, on a dating site. I created a profile, all it said was “boy next door” no picture actually it said nothing. The same day I did this I got a message from William. Four days … More How did we get here!
I have mentioned in prior blogs, that William is an alcoholic. There is nothing to be us ashamed of. Alcoholism is a disease, just like diabetics is. The only difference is that William is a recovering alcoholic. Been sober for 3 plus years. I would not wish anybody to be involved with an alcoholic. It’s … More Al-anon meeting
Two years back I made a decision to leave my place of employment. I had been employed there for just over 15 years and held a mid-senior position in management. I was very unhappy that after all these years the company was employing new staff, with non or very limited experience to take key portions. … More Being Gay in the workplace:
I have been in a relationship for over 9 years with William, only the last three has William been sober. It’s been a long road. Not a road I would have chosen voluntary. However the outcome was better than the first day I met this person, my person. William did attend AA meetings for nearly … More A Gay alcoholic