This is the way I see it. Should your past allow people to judge your present? I have said before that sometimes we cannot walk others lives, but we do control and walk our own lives. My point is, why do we judge people and belive we have the “right” to bring up other people’s … More Should you past, judge your present!
I find solace in blogging, allows me to do something I enjoy, write. It also allows me to put my thoughts on to a structure called my blog. It’s really how I See My Own WORLD. This may stem from me always wanting to be left alone, I was that person that could and still … More Mirror on that wall.
Do we suddenly wake up and realize one day that we all grown up and adults full time. Full of responsibility, commitments, and sensible at last. The fun is not all gone, we just all grown up. We have homes, families and is this not we all dreamed and desired? its actully all good! The … More Being a grown up.
Alot has been written about gay men and addictions, alcohol, drugs and other forms of addiction. Now addictions are non discrimination, they effect all. I am no expert, but have some insight from tye other side of tye table of addiction. William is an alcoholic. Sober now 6 plus years. The assocition with gay men … More Finding yourself,being sober.
During the first couple of years in our relationship, their was a secret third party. This was the white elephant, the one we never talked about. The alcohol become more important than I did. I mattered less. My reactions were to joing the parties, and when I had had enough the constant fights over alcohol … More Drunk love :
The dark place. My personal story. As a child I did not have the knowledge or wisdom to understand myself. Being gay was a huge burden for me. Being the youngest child, a son, great things were expected. I had to follow the footprint that was expected, not my footprint, but those of my parents, … More The D word.!
Over the years I have watched the Osbourne’s, from the reality show, showing the rawness of a total dysfunction family. Forever being in the media 24/7, and how we looked on as they both documented their life’s for us to judge and be critics. However I admire Kelly and Jack Osbourne for overcoming addictions and … More That’s special bond
So when I was single I had a wish list of who I wanted, what they would like like, and the list goes on of my perfect partner. Actually I just wanted someone to like me. I wanted someone older, William is younger. I wanted someone who was a Doctor, Dentist, Lawyer, William is a … More The way I see it when looking for a partner.
I have mixed feelings about Pride. I am proud of my gayness every day I walk out my front door and into the world. I love my identity. Why should I need a weekend to celebrate that? Are the other 51 weekends full of shame? I feel it’s great all the LGBT community members come … More My thoughts on Pride
We mark a day in our life’s, a birthday, an anniversary, a special occasion. Now in our house, we also celebrate the Soberday, the anniversary that William stopped drinking. So this we celebrated this week. So I made a hamper of chocolates, bath products, and some other goodies. I put it in the boot of … More A celebration