Weekends are always our time, has been this way for many years now. We are currently the “Gay Gardeners”. We started by doing the garden in the front of the house about a year back. It was always just their and we never really took much care or notice of it. This weekend we have … More William getting older
I am being very absent from my blog, too absent.and it’s not due to laziness this time. That dark cloud of depression has been hovering over me for a couple of weeks now. I am taking antidepressants, and I have suffered from this for most of my adult life. The good news is that I … More Our family.
I will be 37 on my next birthday. William will be 33. I was 25 when I met William and he was 19. It’s all just numbers, or is it? Now I remember those all night parties, the reckless carefree Ivan. However I am by nature a very serious person. I was not your typical … More Getting older, getting wiser. I hope.
Its been a very challenging week, rough, actully it was a shit week. Work was very intense and the pressure is getting to me. I have been working 10 – 12 hours over the last couple of weeks. I have a number of special projects on at the moment. And above all we are doing … More 2 is the perfect number!
William and myslef have been together nearly 12 years. I was 25 and he was 19 when we met. I never really thought we would make a realtionship long term due to the age difference when we met. How wrong was I. William was a country boy, I was the city boy. Six months later … More The Longevity of a Relationship. The way I see it.
Many ways to keep the sexy side of your relationship alive , its important to keep things exciting.
I have a couple of gay guys who work in our office park, one is married and the other three are single. We were all talking tye other day about nothing specific and then the one single guy started ranting about “couples”. Not in a bad way, but how removed we are from the single … More The dating game.
St I am a born and bred city boy. Now I am not sure if that’s good or a bad trait. Maybe we were brought up to be more of a singleville, tough nor so sure. But city people have a certain hardness, and street smartness maybe but we are not the know-it-alls. Far from … More Stay Calm – Date a Country Man
A great saying, A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences. So of late, I have been reading some very interesting blogs. Got me thinking, what defines me, what defines Ivan the person. I have been given a foundation and made my own principles that I try to live by. Did my upbringing … More What defines you?
William is a lover if music. Now that’s an understatement. We have had to convert on of the bedrooms of the house for all the cd’s and dvd’s. We no longer collect the actual disks, as we now have iTunes and that is all stored on Apple time capsule as well as a couple of … More Let the music play.