Over the last couple of days I have been following a story about a person who committed suicide. It’s sad that this person got to the point for him the only option was suicide. Some background: this person was a successful sports person, was in jail for some violent crimes, was a dad, a son … More Suicide, It does not make sense.
In any relationship, good ones, bad ones, average one, new ones and ones that are years in the making, sex is part of this. Now how good is the sex is dependent on each relationship. Being a gay man, the perception that all gay men have Sex 24 hours a day. That’s all we are … More How important is sex in a relationship?
Like the season of spring, winter, summer and autumn, I think relationships have the same “seasons”. Of late I have been very consumed with work and family matters. Above this William has been doing some more studies, he already has two degrees but likes to challenge himself. So life has consumed us. That catholic or … More Make Time and lots of effort.
Do we suddenly wake up and realize one day that we all grown up and adults full time. Full of responsibility, commitments, and sensible at last. The fun is not all gone, we just all grown up. We have homes, families and is this not we all dreamed and desired? its actully all good! The … More Being a grown up.
lazy days. I have not been feeling great of late. Think I am suffering from exhaustion and dealing with some issues around my family. William is not the shopper in our house, however when he does go shopping, he sure does. On Friday I got home and walked in to see lots of shopping bags. William … More Close the world. Just for today.
Being a long term relationship has been one of my most rewarding achievements. It’s been a long road but a path that has taught me great wisdom, shown me happiness, sadness love and hurt. A full spectrum of life. And I still have my feet on the ground even though I am short legged. Being … More Anything but beige!
I am a reader, always have been. Most nights I will take the iPad and read news, blogs, basically most sites that I find interesting and obviously many gay related issues. Now as William and myslef are very much not a part of any of the “scene” we still hold our gay memberships proudly. I … More Is the gay community becoming reckless?
How life has changed for us over the years. William was the life and soul of the party, and then he become sober. I have also had some radical changes in my life since we first got together. Luckily we have remained on the same pages and moved on with life with very much the … More Alone at home.
Its been a very challenging week, rough, actully it was a shit week. Work was very intense and the pressure is getting to me. I have been working 10 – 12 hours over the last couple of weeks. I have a number of special projects on at the moment. And above all we are doing … More 2 is the perfect number!
I read a lot. My iPad and myself are best of friends. I read news, advice columns, home stuff, mostly everything about life. Now I also read a couple of gay blogs and gay websites like gayguys.com I also have some great friends, some are single and we couples maybe live precarious with the singles. … More How important is the gym body?