All relationships are differnt and have challenges but are all very unique to each other. With us its bathrooms. We each must have our own. It just elevates less stress, William is a bath person and I really like showering. William also finds solicate in his own bathroom, he does not like sharing the basin and has his own ritual in the morning. So do i. So for us it about sharing but also choice. When we first got toether william only had a small bathroom in his apartment. It led to many fights, no hot water and the bath, he had was small. I also had no place to leave my stuff if I stayed over.
So we are incredibly fortunate to have the soace we do at our current home. Leads to a very happy house in tye earky morning when we both getting ready for work. Ivan